is dating just having sex

sex isnt everything but its a part of getting to know another.

sex falls in its priority, hurrying it up or delaying isnt always right.

thing is 2 persons DO feel diffirently about when is the right time for sex.

the other person isnt yr twin so he/she is bound to be diffirent when it comes to sex activity.

its confusing answering when is right time, if i knew this i wont be here on this site, id go out , meet someone and do everything at right time

[quote=kattlekween;373467]

Originally Posted by pudgiebaby

This reminds me of the 16yr old boy who tells the girl that if she loved him she would have sex with him.... Some guys never grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Yep, pretty similar story at any age...oh don't forget the "if you don't give me sex, I'll get blue balls"...love that one, too.!

Another change of lifer! Jeez! what the hell is your problrm about getting laid? Such hostility and repression!

have sex with him he loves you and than if you have sex with him alot he will marry you

[quote=kattlekween;373467]

Originally Posted by pudgiebaby

This reminds me of the 16yr old boy who tells the girl that if she loved him she would have sex with him.... Some guys never grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Yep, pretty similar story at any age...oh don't forget the "if you don't give me sex, I'll get blue balls"...love that one, too.!

what you give is what you get

Originally Posted by kslay123

I havent dated for 14yrs.was divorced over 2yrs ago. I recently met someone on this site who I really like. The first time we met he told me that now days what most people call dating is having sex. He feels people should have sex to become comfortable with each other and learn to trust each other and from there. This the exact opposit of my way of thinging. What is your veiw?

Don't fall for the BS..

it's a line we use to manipulate you into into having sex

Originally Posted by wtfisthiswish

it's a line we use to manipulate you into into having sex

Ssshhhhh ... Don't give away all our secrets.

Originally Posted by wtfisthiswish

it's a line we use to manipulate you into into having sex

quoted for truth

few will believe

Originally Posted by pyro_fish

quoted for truth

Originally Posted by kslay123

I havent dated for 14yrs.was divorced over 2yrs ago. I recently met someone on this site who I really like. The first time we met he told me that now days what most people call dating is having sex. He feels people should have sex to become comfortable with each other and learn to trust each other and from there. This the exact opposit of my way of thinging. What is your veiw?

you are correct, he is working on you. And you really like him? dating is a feeling out process for a LTR imo. Has little to do having sex.