Somethings wrong with this woman right?

You know I have sat here reading everyone's help about turning your back on another human being. What would happen if the whole world did that to each other? The right thing would be to show your love and compassion for her by staying her friend. It is in those times that we confront great adversity that we develope the debth of realationships that we so long for. We would be a hypocrit if we want people to reach out and befriend us, but will turn our backs on someone because they might have some issues. It may just be that one day that everyone starts considering that we have one too many problems. The "right" thing to do is to show her how there is more to life then "sex". Yes along the way she has to confront her "sex" adiction. The best way to do that would be for her to develope a relationship with the one person that can meet all of her needs, that is Jesus. When she is ready for that, or when you think it is appropriate check out the book "Create in Me A Pure Heart" by Steve and Kathy Gallagher. It takes you thought Sex addiction and what place Sex was supposed to take in our lives. Jesus can bring upon us supernational healing in an instant if we believe he can and turn toward him.

Why are you even asking? This is nuts!

She is a nut case. No ifs and or buts about it!!!!!

I feel sorry for her children and the poor example she is setting for them. Plus she is denying her children a father figure. By her poor choice in men. Her children will grow up with wrong expectations of what men are like and if she has son's they could do the same to women and girls vise versa. Sounds like she don't want a steady man in her life. Plus i wouldn't trust anyone who has that many kids with none of them sharing the same father!!!!

why does something have to be wrong with her? because she has 4 children by 4 different fathers ? okay not exactly wholesome but not criminal either muliple sex partners? if it were a man admitting any of that he would be considered a stud a real ladies man but no because shes female theres someting wrong with her i hate double standards maybe she has had multiple partners because there are no decent men out there to have a long term relationship with seems every messages i get on here is some jerk trolling for a quick piece so no theres probably nothing wrong with her just refuses to settle for someone not worthy

Do you want to father her next child? Run baby run! She is obviously not into birth control.

Originally Posted by kewlsan

ok, before anyone asks why i even care, I have met this woman through here. I wont mention names or anything. And everything I am about to say is fact and indeed true, not only because of what she has told me but I have confirmed it myself, through actually seeing it, or asking other people. I have come to be friends with this woman, but I have a few issues that bother the heck out of me, that I dont know if I should just leave, or stick around.

Just from what you said I'd run for the hills! I'm sure she is fun to be around and attractive, but look at this track record, is that really what you want? I'm sure you deserve better and there will always be others! And this is coming from a guy that rarely gets dates. I wouldn't touch it with a 10ft pole.

she maybe happy but you wont be, run for those hills buddy.

Originally Posted by kewlsan

ok, before anyone asks why i even care, I have met this woman through here. I wont mention names or anything. And everything I am about to say is fact and indeed true, not only because of what she has told me but I have confirmed it myself, through actually seeing it, or asking other people. I have come to be friends with this woman, but I have a few issues that bother the heck out of me, that I dont know if I should just leave, or stick around.

The woman is a 37 year old mother of 4. All of the children are from different fathers. One of the children is the direct result of a one night stand. Ok, if this doesn't raise a red flag wait to you hear the rest.

She has been with over 60 men. She has been with her husbands brother as well as her cousin. She recently got pregnant with some guy she had relations with for 2 years. The man wants nothing to do with the child (like the rest of the fathers) Since then she has had sex with at least 3 different men, while pregnant. Shes about 8 weeks now.

She claims she is a happy person in life. Thinks theres nothing wrong with having multiple partners. She claims to not have any std's and by the results of her latest checkup, she's clean.

She tells me all these things because we have become close friends. I have considered dating her, but she simply has some major issues.

She says she is glad non of the fathers are in her children s lives because they make no good fathers. Including the latest to be father. She has been eye balling a 16 year old kid, and tells me if it weren't for her being pregnant, she probably would of had sex with him.

Please tell me that im not crazy, and that there is defiantly something very wrong with this lady, and I should by all means run for the hills. She makes a very convincing case, that she is happy in her life, and see's nothing wrong with her life.

What would be the "right" things to do. Because I have become to care for her. She's a great mother, provider for her children. She is actually very wise and smart. Everything about her is wonderful, except for her apparent addition with sex. But what is the smart thing for me to do, for my sake?

No matter what we say or think you are n adult and will do what ever you whant, you will probably end up marring the nut case, and thennn le us know how it whent...

Originally Posted by kewlsan

ok, before anyone asks why i even care, I have met this woman through here. I wont mention names or anything. And everything I am about to say is fact and indeed true, not only because of what she has told me but I have confirmed it myself, through actually seeing it, or asking other people. I have come to be friends with this woman, but I have a few issues that bother the heck out of me, that I dont know if I should just leave, or stick around.

The woman is a 37 year old mother of 4. All of the children are from different fathers. One of the children is the direct result of a one night stand. Ok, if this doesn't raise a red flag wait to you hear the rest.

She has been with over 60 men. She has been with her husbands brother as well as her cousin. She recently got pregnant with some guy she had relations with for 2 years. The man wants nothing to do with the child (like the rest of the fathers) Since then she has had sex with at least 3 different men, while pregnant. Shes about 8 weeks now.

She claims she is a happy person in life. Thinks theres nothing wrong with having multiple partners. She claims to not have any std's and by the results of her latest checkup, she's clean.

She tells me all these things because we have become close friends. I have considered dating her, but she simply has some major issues.

She says she is glad non of the fathers are in her children s lives because they make no good fathers. Including the latest to be father. She has been eye balling a 16 year old kid, and tells me if it weren't for her being pregnant, she probably would of had sex with him.

Please tell me that im not crazy, and that there is defiantly something very wrong with this lady, and I should by all means run for the hills. She makes a very convincing case, that she is happy in her life, and see's nothing wrong with her life.

What would be the "right" things to do. Because I have become to care for her. She's a great mother, provider for her children. She is actually very wise and smart. Everything about her is wonderful, except for her apparent addition with sex. But what is the smart thing for me to do, for my sake?

Get some new friends....

TMI


She talks to much. Be her friend and tell her that it is not necessary to reveal all of that about herself.