Why not just join sex sites?

Originally Posted by atma6969

Does SN always send your email to a featured member no matter how many you send? I get a feeling that they cut you off after 1 or 2 emails. Does anyone know what their policy or procedure is? tia

I have had many sent to featured members and i am not featured. I haven't found the limit yet...

Originally Posted by thewritestuff4u

No, my photos are not risque, revealing or provocative in any way shape or form. And since when is being "visual" an excuse for someone to lie about what they're really after? Like I said, why not just join a sex site?

Any ladies who've been subjected to this care to comment?

I agreed with "my photos are not risque, revealing or provocative " .Mine not at all:fully dressed nothing provocative:same result in the end. Where do they see in my profile I am looking for sex?
Or they just try anyway? Stupidity is really botomless

I am looking for a LTR and a woman who had her last child leave to college , had plastic surgery in all the places a woman who wants to look 10-15 yrs younger contacted me----what she really wanted was sex--- a boy toy---which was fine---but it wasnt what she said---and i wanted momogamy---and she was having sex with others i found out---a man at work and men online----HONESTY---if she said she is free and wants to sow her wild oats--then I might have accomodated her longer than I did. Though I now know what a boob job scars look like and other scars that didnt bother me.

Originally Posted by oncemoreagain

Well, you see what I called this thread? I am hoping to find someone for an actual relationship, but all the men I find who say they are looking for "Miss Right," actually seem to be looking for "Miss Right Now!" I agree, why don't they just go to sex sites??? It is really disheartening to me, and I have resigned several times, only to come back because I really don't want to give up that easy.

I am looking for a LTR and a woman who had her last child leave to college , had plastic surgery in all the places a woman who wants to look 10-15 yrs younger contacted me----what she really wanted was sex--- a boy toy---which was fine---but it wasnt what she said---and i wanted momogamy---and she was having sex with others i found out---a man at work and men online----HONESTY---if she said she is free and wants to sow her wild oats--then I might have accomodated her longer than I did. Though I now know what a boob job scars look like and other scars that didnt bother me

Personally I agree, I wish that people who just wanted sex instead of actual relationships would go join one of the sex sites, but I know that will never happen.

Sorry folks I agree with most of these ladies. The 1st time I joined singles.net about a year ago I had the same thing occur men wanted to date me
get laid and move on to the next. After 2 of these experiences I gave up.
Men don't realize for some reason that women want more than that. Yes it is nice with the right person if you are attracted or have strong emotional feelings. To MOST women they need an emotional tie to be intimate. Men however seem to need it more and think of it more in terms of a bodily function to be taken care of like sleeping,eating, or bathing. Mind you this
is what I am seeing out there. Also a lot of terms need defining-like dating
to me it means just that going out to places getting to know each other not right to the bedroom. No I am not a prude but I am not a sleaze either.
What does LTR mean to you guys anyway- someone you can sleep with all the time and not make a commitment to? Fine if this is something you both agree to but in most cases men don't talk just assume or think it is their right if they have taken you out and paid for entertainment or a meal.

I read a lot of these posts and i think it's kind of sad that a lot of guys have that huge "hunter" thing going on when they want you to respond to them and meet and yes try to get in your pants then all of a sudden they lose interest or aren't nearly as available as before they were trying to meet you. I know all men are not like this. Sadly i am one of those stories and I will not put the name of the person on this site because he is still active and continuing to hurt unsuspecting women and take advantage of them. All the while giving a big sob story about how he was married and it wasn't him it was her for sooo many years that was wrong with the marriage. Sick and sad and one day it's going to come back to haunt those people that are so callus and don't respect others. I feel kind of depressed for these guys, if they were just honest, there would be this huge sympathy factor that women love and they might actually find someone they really do click with, right joe man? Watch out ladies, not a pretty thing going on. Good luck to all. :-)