I found her but she just got started dating

I am confused about the lady I'm dating. I like her very much and it's more then that it's love.She say I am nice guy .But she confused in what she looking for. This happens to me all the time. The conversation starts great and soon fads .We talk on the for about six hours we met the next day for coffee and after that went for walk at the beach. We had wonderful day out we kissed hug and even had sex that on first date. I don't expect it or ask for it just happen. Then I thought every thing was great .Next couple days thing just starting to stop no more long talks no more nothing .Is it that hard for ladies to find one good relationship.

Originally Posted by samuel51

I am confused about the lady I'm dating. I like her very much and it's more then that it's love.She say I am nice guy .But she confused in what she looking for. This happens to me all the time. The conversation starts great and soon fads .We talk on the for about six hours we met the next day for coffee and after that went for walk at the beach. We had wonderful day out we kissed hug and even had sex that on first date. I don't expect it or ask for it just happen. Then I thought every thing was great .Next couple days thing just starting to stop no more long talks no more nothing .Is it that hard for ladies to find one good relationship.

Have you considered maybe it scared the holly **** out of her? Some times us gals get scared when things go too fast. If you have no talked to her for more than a week than it's time to move on.

You mentioned that she just started dating. I am assuming she is newly divorced or just out of a relationship. She doesn't want to settle on the first guy she dates, and I would have to agree with her. You don't give a time-frame on when you started seeing her, but when things move too fast and the guy acts like he loves us in a very short period of time, it just makes him look needy and desparate.

Try slowing down next time. Don't get mushy so soon. Things will develop on their own.

Or the sex wasn't that great

should not have had sex on the first date, that is the problem, you moved too fast,and as a woman, we do not like that